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If you’ve ever labeled you and your boo as a “PC” or if you’ve ever envied a “power couple” please read and share.
#PowerCouples define their power by what they do: She’s this big time executive. He’s an entrepreneur. They own two businesses together. They look cute together. They dress nice. Their clothes match. They’re always on the move. But in the background, we miss the fights and the chaos. The desparation to feel loved and appreciated. They have everything and feel like they have nothing. This is really a #DisasterCouple.
#MasterCouples define their power by what they know. They have mastered the art of coexisting. The art of friendship. The art of intimacy. There is no greater power that will foster a love that lasts through every life transition imaginable.
One way they do that is by building love maps. A love map is a way of getting to know your partner by asking the right questions. You can do this on date-night (You do still go on dates, right?) at least once a week.
Great Date Night Questions Are Always Open-ended
1. If you could choose any other career other than what you do now, what would you choose and why?
2.What kind of year has this been for you? Tell me the story of your proudest moment.
3. If you could design the perfect house for us, what would it look like?
4. What are some of your life dreams now?
5. If you could be the richest person in the world, what would you do with your money?
Take turns, asking each other a different question vs. you both answering the same question. And then switch it up a bit.
You should also ask at least one open-ended question daily. Instead of asking:
“How was your day?(it was aiiiiggggghhht)”
“What interesting things happened to you today?” (I had a good meeting with so-and-so, the kids did xyz…..)
Remember, great questions cannot be answered with a simple Yes or No. They create depth and a new level of discovery.
Here’s to Your #HappyLoveLife.